Sometimes people want to push and force the creative act.
“Make it happen NOW!” They say.
“Of course you have time!” They say.
Force myself with productivity hacks!
Override all doubts and protestations!
Deny myself down-time and work around the clock to Make. This. Thing. Happen.
But in my experience sometimes waiting has a purpose.
Maybe this creative act needs me to do a few more things first, gather more skills and experience until the time is right.
Maybe I am waiting for the right collaborators, or sense of possibility.
Maybe I am waiting for something else to come to an end before the new thing starts.
Maybe I’m waiting to rest and restore so that my energy levels fill back up and bring more ease to the task.
Maybe something in another aspect of my life has to shift and alter so the new creation can take place.
To me, many coaches take a mechanical view of us as human beings – push this lever, pull that, prod and hey presto! The thing is made! We are Successful!
To me though humans are more like a tree in a garden unfolding. There are deep depths subterranean truths hidden in soil. There are fabulous rich connections between ourselves and other organisms that feed us, pollinate us and shelter in our arms. There are seasons. There is maturing, that takes time. There are signals that tell us when it is safe and productive to bare fruit.
Creativity to me is a whole self endeavour.
I have learnt that bossing and forcing is not the way to satisfying productivity.
I am growing to trust the fallow seasons, and learning to understand that all trees look different, and need different things to grow. And so do we as creative beings.
How do you honour your own rhythms and seasons of creativity? Do you trust your instincts about when to bring your projects into the world?